I refuse to accept this argument anymore - it has no credibility. You either have the courage of your convictions or you don't. You either gain integrity by upholding your values or you don't. I won't support my own oppression -- I don't care who's asking me to do it.

Democrats should be arguing that freedom for GLBT people and recognition of their civil rights is a victory for everyone. We shouldn't be asking any American to settle for anything less than their birthright. Why should I be encouraged to accept second-class citizenship in order for you to win elections? The nerve.

If the Democratic party wants my money and my vote then they better well be my advocate and ally. End of story.