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Marriage

You've dated enough to know what you want.
And that's marriage - with the right person.
You're serious about settling down some time soon.
Even if you haven't met the person you want to get hitched to!

Nothing to say except "hi" and I hope everyone is having a nice Saturday.

Damn you, you sperminating bastard!

Drama! Drama! Drama!

I'm a cute chick and I know it.

Therefore, I only date men that are perfectly buff, 6'+ Godlike creatures with professional degrees and prestigious jobs with lots and lots of money. I really like it when they disrespect me and just have no respect for women in general. If they smack me around a little, even better.

If they buy me useless stuff like jewelry so I can show it to my shallow friends that's what matters most. I would never go for a guy who is unemployed, underemployed, or not a self-rightous, conceited ass who beats up smaller men for fun. He has to be perfect in every stereotypical, shallow, stupid sense of the word. Oh, and I give them lots of incredible sex too. I don't do it for pleasure and enhancement of the relationship, but to get more things like earrings and fur coats and stuff.

Ok, so there's a few relationships around here, past and present, but there are definite reasons as to why one with another DUer is so fun. What's yours?

I'm sitting around in my marabou slippers eating bonbons and I figured it was was time to finally answer those questions that have been on your mind.

I would say I had the greatest first date ever as well. He is a man who knows how to treat a woman. We had a most fabulous time. We clicked. Yes, he gets a second date.

I will also add my view of "internet relationships" to the mix. If people meet online, it's great if it's in a place like this with common interest (be it politics, politics with a side order of "snark" , bungee jumping, quilting, or whatever). I've never actually went out with someone I've never met before like this, but we talked a lot beforehand these past few weeks. (He knew people who met me, I knew people who met him, etc.) I'd also say in terms of meeting someone you met online, don't waste time. If two people "click" they need to find a way to do something about it as soon as possible. The "reality sphere" is a little phrase of mine FF loves, but it's the only thing that really matters. Everything else is just abstraction. Anyway, 'nuff said there.

I see a lot of people around here post a lot of threads about relationships and finding that special someone. A lot of times people are down or feel in some way rejected or hurt. I'm not going to go into depth here, but I have not had an easy road to say the least. I have been very loyal and giving to men I've loved in the past and it often feels futile and painful given some of the ways I've been treated. People who don't know me or know me very little think my life is easy based or some sort of superficial nonsense. It's not. I just don't choose to bask in the negative.

One thing I have learned though is every time I've ever truly loved someone, I've grown from it in some way. Sometimes it took awhile. Sometimes I had pain. Ultimately though, even the most difficult of times brought me something and for that I'm grateful. No, love is never a waste because it makes you feel and change and grow. It is a catalyst for new beginnings and important changes. It is our very humanity. We can't control how others behave, so if someone can't be what we need for whatever reason or hurts us, it's not necessarily about us. Take what they were able to give for what it was and put it away in a special place and say goodbye. Learn about yourself, but don't shut down. Be cautious, but don't base every decision on fear in life.

"When we feel love and kindness toward others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace." The Dalai Lama

Last night I said in front of a room full of people, "Hi, I just came upstairs to grab some of your nipples."

I didn't mean anything by it, but strangely enough a group of about 20 people were in stitches.

Personally, I say Ritchie. That Fonz crap was totally overrated.

Yeah, I know where you're at. Feels really good.

Whatever. All is well.

I'll still take gifts. Flowers. Candy. Jewelry.