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Posted by Cerridwen in General Discussion
Thu Nov 10th 2011, 09:53 PM
My father explained that the world requires men only to be responsible and accountable for their thoughts, their feelings and their actions. Women, he suggested, are always permitted to blame others for what they think and feel and do. My mother, he explained, would maintain her belief that I had "made her hit me first" and would insist that I needed to change so that "she wouldn't have to yell at me or hit me ever again."

I remember saying that I did not think that was fair. My father explained that fairness is a male value which most women do not understand or appreciate.

During my apology to my mother, as my father had predicted, she demanded that I acknowledge that I had caused her to hit me, that her violence was my fault. My father had advised me not to argue that point even though, objectively speaking, it is not true.

He explained I could use logic and rationality to devise an acceptable response to her demand without having to lie to her by falsely admitting that I thought her violence was my fault. He advised me to keep my logic to myself, explaining that women do not highly value logic at the best of times and that they detest it when they are emotionally upset. (I told you that much of our discussion was not politically correct.)


The title of the piece from which I excerpted above is "The Last Time I Hit A Woman". Google it. I'm not providing a link.

The full definition of the Dworkin-MacKinnon Ordinance of pornography is at this link and looks a damned sight different than what was reported in our oh-so-objective and non-spinning media; or did you think the western media only lies about other countries?

A snippet:

1. "Pornography" means the graphic sexually explicit subordination of women through pictures and/or words that also includes one or more of the following:

a. women are presented dehumanized as sexual objects, things or commodities; or

b. women are presented as sexual objects who enjoy humiliation or pain; or

c. women are presented as sexual objects experiencing sexual pleasure in rape, incest, or other sexual assault; or


Much more at link above. The western media reported the definition as: "'Pornography' means the graphic sexually explicit subordination of women through pictures and/or words" and a whole lotta people bought it.

Welcome to the world of accepted knowledge, common knowledge and conventional wisdom as created by our illustrious media.

I bet you think feminists are all radical and hairy, too. BTW, look up definitions of radical. There are several.





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