Suicide, sanity and state prison. He is an abusive bully and when I'm not thinking about killing myself I am thinking about killing him in self defense. The abuse is emotional, verbal, financial (yes you can abuse people with money) sexual and psychological. I have a badly broken arm right now that keeps me from working and he won't keep food in the house, gas in the car, I could go on and on. If I could meet someone I would leave in a heart beat..