Seriously, knock it off. DOMA and DADT are horrible POLICIES that can be repealed. And ultimately will be repealed.
The "ex-gay" movement, which McClurkin and Caldwell represent and promote, says that gay and lesbian people are "sick" and "evil" and need to be "cured". The "ex-gay" movement is something for hatemoners to get behind to appear "compassionate". Since they can't come out and say "I wish you fags and dykes would all die".
Knock off this attempt to lessen what a vile, hateful thing the "ex-gay" movement is, please. Seriously.