my rightwing family is going on and on about how obama promises everything while mccain is making no promises. I wonder what promises to what groups both foreign and domestic has mccain made behind the peoples backs.

they did it free. but the nature of the help was to first push me back into their religion. not a good thing for me because I walked away both the get enough sanity to deal with school and because I found that my being gay and not a fundy wasn't a good thing for dealing with a fundy family.

that first part drove me into a depression that almost ended with me taking my life. then they decided to help fix the damage they caused. they decided to help me clean. having the family that pushed you into a religion that you despise going through all your stuff in the name of helping you clean is not a good thing. about the only good thing they did after that was hooking me up through the social services department of the county with the local supported employment services. they helped get me back to functioning and got me plenty of work. pretty soon I plan to start back at school and hopefully finish my associates degree in computer programming.

torments that dirtbags that are only slightly better than him would dish out to him.

if she ever finds out about my sexuality and tries to bully me into being straight.

if you are in a town that has one gay bar and it isn't a bear bar. then do the non-bearish gays think that as a bear you are out of place. I happen to be a bear that happens to be attracted to other bears. don't have much problems with non bears although transsexuals and cross dressers I don't find attractive. I prefer men that like me would be easily mistaken for straight. or at minimum the leatherman if I cant find other bears.